FIXED!!!!!! Just so everyone knows very very common problem when using your jimny off road is relays!!!! My suggestion is upgraded them! I went through all upgraded ones and replaced with 50amp ones and still didnt work then I rang the bloke I brought her off and he said its probably the one that hasn't been upgraded which was hiding under the new ones, by pasted the relay with a bit of wire and she started first turn

So don't be a fool like me check the cheap stuff befor buying all the expensive bits lol I spent $380 all up to fix a $4.80 relay!
Easy way to check if the relay is stuffed is get a length of wire and find which 2 plugs are the switch and connect the wires to the plug, ill post up pics soon
Thanks to everyone who helped out, this is a great community