lump_a_charcoal wrote:
You need to enlarge the hole in the floor - It is preventing you getting full into gear.
+1.
When you go from 2H to 4H does the lever pop into 4H and hold? The lever itself should snap into position and hold requiring more force to follow through to neutral.
It sounds like there is resistance somewhere stopping the transfer case shifter. Either the boot on the lever itself may need to be cut some to relieve tension or the hole cut bigger.
Remove the boot for starters and give it a go from there.