Ronin wrote:
I remember someone telling me that the oil requirements of a car can change based on the wear the engine has.
I'm not certain I agree with that statement, but, it used to be a fairly common trick to run a thicker oil on older, more worn, engines to try to reduce oil consumption - that might have been acceptable on older pushrod engines or even early OHC engines with solid lifters, but if you try it on a more modern engine with hydraulic lifters, and in the case of a J20a, hydraulic timing chain tensioners, you're likely to run into other issues, and hasten the demise of the engine.
The correct approach is to either rebuild or replace the engine, using a thicker oil is a "band aid" solution.